I (15M) think i like a girl, But my best friend might like her too.

So there's a girl(15) in 4/5 of my classes, and I really like her. I think my best friend(15M He has been one of my best friends for a few years) might be developing feelings for her, but he might just think shes attractive because he has told me that he likes another girl.

Sit down with your friend and talk about girls. About competition. About the rules.

Some of my rules:

All girls are fair game until the relationship is exclusive.

I will never talk bad about my friends to try and get a girl over them (because the last thing I want is for neither of us to get laid)

If I tell you something about a girl and she tells you the opposite, I expect you to take my word. We have more history than your infatuation with her vagina.

My Friend called me from a football game going on at our school, and said he just saw her, and that she looked really hot. Instantly I got mad, because he knows I might like her, and he was just pissing me off more and more by telling me about what was going on at the game. I might just be over reacting about the whole thing, but I just keep freaking out over this girl. I always think about her and I think shes the most attractive person at our school. I don't necessarily want to date her, or even do sexual stuff with her, i just want to spend time and talk with her, when my best friend is kind of shitty when it comes to girls. He acts like he just thinks shes hot and it honestly kinda makes me mad.

Shut up. What the fuck. She's hot bro. Guys are going to like her. They'll all have different reasons but in the end, you all want her because she's hot. Don't be a fucking hypocrite.

The biggest problem with me talking to this girl is that she is really...Whats the word......Good. She never gets in trouble or any of that crap, and I am in the office almost daily.

Not relevant. A girl will do anything for the right guy.

I swear a lot, and i don't think that she likes to hear that stuff. I'm not her type, so i don't see why she would like me, but I still think she might.

You don't know what her type is. You're just guessing and in the process you are selling yourself short. Stop that.

I might like a girl but I cant decide if I do or not, and she might like me.

Whether she likes you or not doesn't matter, because how you act is the same regardless.

If you like her, ask her out on a 1-on-1 date. If she accepts, she's interested in dating you. If she doesn't accept but she tries her best to reschedule etc, she's interested. Anything else, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

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