I (16f) lost my virginity and my parents found out. They are LIVID. They're making all kinds of threats and I don't know what to do (READ DESC)

^ Truth.

Something about a flappy open hole is sexy and just somehow feels great. Thing is, I'm not the type of person who takes pride in sex. I find those who are celibate by choice more respectable as it often can be a case of self-control.

I just hate how the double standard sex is compared to drugs. As someone who takes stimulants, the stigma of being a pill popper/abuser/insane is outrageous sometimes. Meanwhile, sex-addicts are just being glorified. Aside from that tangent, in my opinion.

Would I want sex in my relationship? Yes. Absolutely. Would I want it to be a major aspect of my relationship? Hopefully not. That seems very unhealthy - even having insanely high libido, I think I would like to maintain control of my urges and desires.

Is sex overrated? From what I observed those who glorify sex are often the ones bad at it. Meanwhile it tends to be other case for those who find it overrated.

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