Yeah i was in the same boat with a girl i liked. Couldn't be in a relationship with me because one of the reasons was that it was too early after her pRior. But she still saw me and we continued, hoping things would change. They didn't and we broke up. She then a week or two lster came back and wabted to see if we could atleast be FWB and friends or something, can't remember the details. Basically reinstating what we had but not the datingpart. I was excited but apparently too excited. She broke it up two days before i would meet up again. Tried being friends but she was so weird about it. We drifted apart and i noticed she came around campus to my area quite frequently. that hurt seeing her come to my area and well, fucking around with someone else that is not me.

This other FWB s th this guy apparently is her BF now. And i realised that i was totally that rebound person for her. We were "FWB"/dating but it was more than that, but not a relationship. I had to outright ask her since she figured i wouldn't like to hear nor acknowledged she had found someone, even AFTER i confessed to her again and wanted a last shot.

Today we have no contact at all. Im the one that have reached out ALL the times after our friendship didn't work. I still miss her sadly, she really is one of the best people i've ever known. We had so much fun.

And about your post, I was suprised your response was so ... crude (?). Then again, i can see it since you got so hurt. The typical:"Im looking for someone like you thats not you.". That was what basically happned to me, i think. Details gets fuzzier over time. BUT its good that you're stabding up for yourself and have integrity!