[17M] Considering surgery

My ears are basically plastered to the sides of my head (I mean like really close to my head). I have always been curious if it has been because for the past few years I wear a beanie every time I go to bed in winter (I used to sleep on my side or tummy down with my head rotated sideways to breathe), and not even then, just wear a beanie in general and or I wear headphones that make my ears uncomfortable after a couple of hours. Just rigorous persistence to wear headphones coz I love music :L I always used to keep the headphones on pretty tight so they wouldn't fall off I THINK this has unintentionally caused my ears to just naturally stay back like flat with my head (bonus my hair is like flat now too! unless ofc I get out of the shower and NOT wear a beanie which is like literally never and do some physical activity that causes me to work up a sweat and make my hair frizzy). I also wear the beanie after I get out of the shower all the time (after drying my hair with a towel ofc) but my main influence for ever wearing a beanie is because I had medium length hair that I didn't like to style and was unsure if I would even suit short hair for a few years in high school, and a beanie would hide it all away while at the same time and like I said it would keep my FLAT. I say this to you because it just so happened to be a coincidental encounter to a most recently curiosity of mine that might be the reason why my ears are so flat. To disclose, my intentions were unrelated to anything about ears lol, it was just to hide my hair. (I had terrible hair in high school now its turning our great!)
I have nothing better to do now which is why I am making such a long comment :L I spent this much time telling you because I think your an idiot for wanting to get surgery for it. Don't do it bud, if you never mentioned it I would never have noticed. People find their asymmetry as flaws but as we see even recently that has been shown to be silly when people try and make themselves perfect. Don't fret bud, glad to see you are making an effort to do some physical exercise in the meantime.

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