I [18 F] had a nude photo shoot done by a man [30s M] but it went way too far. No idea how to proceed and tell my bf [19 M] that will accuse me of cheating.

I would expect her to leave as soon as he said he wants to physically touch her. I don't understand how you get from being willing to get alone with someone and take your clothes of to fearing from your life once they ask you for more. I would just stop the process and walk out like she did eventually.

I'm not saying she led the guy on or had it coming but I would be upset as a partner of someone who tells me that they continued the shoot after the person asked them to touch their genitals. Especially after I already expressed I want happy with them doing it in the first place.

Op is 19 but her behavior in this situation confuses me as does the concept of her not being at all reactive.

If someone I was dating told me they went somewhere with another person alone and then this person touched and kissed them and it lasted for a while before they walked out, and they told me they didn't want it at all but didn't walk away, I'd have serious doubts that I'm being taken for a fool and would break it off.

Op maybe really did freeze up, I'm not judging her, but I am saying that her boyfriend can be upset about the situation while still acknowledging that the other guy was predatory.

I am not excusing the behavior of the photographer just the notion that the bf needs to be cool about the situation and not think he was cheated on.

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