Your right, it’s more condescending it’s just too much judgement I can’t be around.

Last time she freaked how she thought my brother died because he didn’t answer his phone (I know it makes no sense) but he didn’t answer his phone for a couple of days literally 3 days and she flipped out and got drunk.

She thought he died cause he has anemia and she thought he passed out and died. I told her that he texted me the other day and she didn’t believe me and said that I was a liar. He lives in another state and she made me go into his apple account to use the find my iPhone and press the alarm until he answered. When she’s drunk she’s very honest and she said that if anything happened to us she would kill herself. So he finally answered and he was just sleeping. He didn’t call her cause he was stressed and needed some free time.

So you see if three days makes her act like that imagine if I ghost her. She will flip out. So I’m stuck. When she isn’t drunk she’s fine though she only drinks when she’s stressed or on edge.