I (18f) have had my confidence destroyed so much over my breasts that I’m thinking about getting plastic surgery.

Omg. I wish I had smaller breasts. I have VS size 34D and I wish I could go down to a B. That would make me so happy. I live in sports bras to keep mine under control, and I know women with far larger breasts than mine-- I have no idea how they manage them!

If I could go without a bra, I would be so happy. Or even wear a bralette confidently, or just those cute wraps... I envy you ladies with smaller breasts. Mine are a weird shape, too. No perk at all. Thanks, mom.

My husband loves them no matter how un-perky they are, but I definitely wish they were smaller.

I feel like this is a common insecurity for women. Teenage years are so difficult, even without people being dicks. I hope OP waits a bit to find her self-confidence. I didn't find mine until my mid-twenties. Now I am nearing thirty, and I am feeling amazing. Not perfect, but amazing.

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