[18M] My [18F] girlfriend wants her first time to be very special and has set the bar very high. I'm flustered.

On behalf of all women, thank you. You never forget your first sexual partner especially when that person held a significance to you, and it’s very sad that a lot of womens first time was with a man that used them to “pop their cherry” and leave (at least thats my experience and many of my friends) even though I know that’s not your intentions, and I can tell you’re a good guy, you could end up seemingly like what I just described to your girlfriend with out meaning to if you don’t tell her you’re not in love with her right now. So in the future if you guys break up she isn’t completely destroyed. Patience is key, who knows give it a month or two and you could be wanting to put a ring on her

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