Thank you for the advice on the LDR, I've done it before and I believe that my boyfriend is worth it, but these are things I still need to consider. As far as the gap between us and listening to my gut goes, I am trying to remember that I can always get out of the situation but if I leave and change my mind it will be impossible to get back into it. My boyfriend is a great guy that I am deeply in love with, but if it comes to breaking up, I want to make absolutely sure that I'm doing the right thing before I consider breaking it off with him. My gut's nerves are much weaker than it's infatuation with him.

My boyfriend doesn't restrict me from anything, the only thing that would upset him would be if I cheated on him or blew off a phone date for someone else. I am free to spend time with anyone or go anywhere in the city at any time of night as long as he knows I'm safe. The things I'm missing out on are things I'm not concerned about if that makes sense... I missed out on more while he was here because he never wanted to go places with me.

I have told my boyfriend every time I hang out with my friend, and I told him about being asked out by him immediately. I don't hide anything from him. He's okay with it all because I'm open and honest about it.

Thank you, your reply was very helpful, lots to think about. I appreciate it!