But it's been a day since then and she wants to be with me still, was I just being too insecure? Her wanting me back makes me think that she does love me, but her being able to have on a crush on somebody else while she still had me makes me worried and upset.

The problem of no "attraction" still exist but I think love is more than that, but is this bad? Is it ok to not have much physical attraction for the other? It makes me so insecure because she doesn't even know the guy that well but she still developed a crush on him, so I know she's capable of having that ability to be attracted to someone for more than their personality.

She really wants to get back together which makes me think that maybe what you said was right, it was harmless. But at the same time the problems still exist, I still feel like I'm not enough and that's why she was able to find that kind of attraction in someone else, the same kind of attraction I wanted from her. I scared that if I am not everything she wants then she will find someone else to fill in the gap.

Maybe I was overreacting out of my own insecurities and issues? I know I have problems but I don't know how to fix them and I don't anyone else to know how but I will keep trying to fix them, thank you so much for being honest with me.

Thank you once again for your advice, it was very thoughtful.