1st Valentine’s Day after DDAY

Last Valentines was 2 months after dday and I didnt get him anything. He got me a card with a personalized message and some chocolate. I was super raw that day and I remember thinking that I would never buy a card for him again (I used to take such care to get him the perfect card and write something heartfelt). In the time since (13 months post dday) I actually did give him a card for another occasion. This valentines? Im not going to pressure myself on the day to give a card or gift. I find the expectation of it to be too much (not that I think he does expect it, but more for me...I dont want to make demands on myself if that makes sense ). We do have plans to share a special meal.

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