2 dna tests say I’m not the father to my beautiful baby girl… is it even worth getting tested for Chimerism, or do I need to wake up?

Yikes…. Yeah as much as this sounds like it would work….. I just know it would blow up on me. I will try but I know it’s gonna turn into her denying it. She has told me in the past that she would NEVER allow for HER baby to be tested. Has even made the comment about some man that we know who get their child tested and found out it wasn’t his…. She said: “well he shouldn’t have had gotten a paternity test then”. Her world is gonna be flipped upside down when o tell her I know.

She is gonna be so ashamed and so worried about what people will think. I am scared she is gonna gaslight the absolute living shit out of me and guilt me into raising some other man’s child…. Just because she knows how close I have become with this child. Child is under 1 year though so hopefully she will not have to remember all of this heartbreak.

The whole thing just sucks. Never would’ve actually thought it would happen. Just always a concern. But always kinda laughed it off in my own head.

/r/genetics Thread Parent