Distance is from coast to coast. We see each other a week if not more out of the month roughly. Sometimes it can be less. However, the idea of having a girlfriend has been pushed more by him than for myself. This new person would be ours. Sexually, we would make videos of her and I which is more of a kink and desire. The idea isn't supposed to be just random women but someone we both interact with. He and I video chat, game, talk all the time. I am sure more than the average couple and that is whether he is here or there. dating someone and allowing them to be apart of our us as it exists is the desire. The thoughts here were advice about dating and how to begin. Our relationship is established, and our boundaries are established.