Allow me to clarify for you what I mean, I can't understand you thinking I'm 'crazy' but I have an explanation. I had just spoken to him before I came, I didn't show up thinking I would catch him doing anything. I was excited about how nice the rental car was and wanted to show him. He never mentioned her being there, and I had only made the comment that I didn't want her flirting with him. It's early enough in the relationship that I think these mishaps are inexcusable. It doesn't make sense to leave out that she was there, nor does it make sense for me to have to be happy about it. I was unhappy because we have discussed this situation and he even said he figured I would be unhappy if he was alone with her. Why do it then? He is allowed to do anything he wants. I am not his wife or mother. I don't force him to stay home or spend time with me. He is happy with how often I make him go be with friends and how much I give him his space (which he fights me about because he doesn't want to have space) I understand you think I'm insane, but I don't want to protect my relationship. I want my boyfriend to just respect me like I respect him, I don't hang out with guy friends alone and I don't think he should do this. Intuition tells me something is up. And I found out tonight that she DOESNT have a boyfriend. My BF acted as though he didn't know how she ended up on his Facebook just like he acted like he didn't know she was with him when I pulled up. He played dumb like "Oh she's here? Wow!" And he ignores me when I try to talk. It's not yelling or screaming, I'm talking and asking him what he wants me to feel. I ask him how he thinks I should handle it. Because if he tells me I'm being crazy, I'd listen, but he tells me I'm justified in my feelings and doesn't say anything else. See my issue?