As a 6'5" male, I think I'm in love...

As for your concerns though...

Tummy: I don't see anything wrong with at all. You're probably going to be harder on yourself than anyone else though. If you feel like you need improvement, go for it, but do it for you and not for anyone else.

Scars: they're part of who you are. Some guys will be scared away by them, and some guys won't. They're part of who you are, they're a sign of where you've been, and they're a reminder that you've overcome and survived. I understand not being proud of them, but there's no reason to be ashamed of them either. Anyone who freaks out about them probably isn't someone you'd want to be with anyone.

Labia & Butthole: Everyone is different. Your labia look about average to me, and there's nothing wrong with your butt at all. If I were taking off your underwear and found that underneath, I wouldn't hesitate to go down on you at all.

Boobs: Perky, round, cute nipples, and very sexy piercings. They may not be as big as you would like, but the shape is great and I certainly wouldn't call your boobs small.