1) I admit I a mistake and disrespected my partners privacy, that's why I admitted what I did to him and owned up to it. I shouldn't have invaded his personal conversations so that's why I am not using it against him.
2) I am a WOC and I will dislike those that don't respect me or those that look down on us or try to strip our rights away. This is not a disagreement over pizza toppings.
3) I made a mistake and I apologized to my bf because I thought he said that to a girl. I made a mistake.
4) I am not admitting my actions to them. I will do to you but I wouldn't to them. I am not going to submissive towards racists and bigots. Those girls can learn more from me but if I made a mistake and someone else with better morals told me I was wrong, I would gladly listen to them.