Thank you for explaining. I totally did miss the point, so that makes a lot more sense.

When I was discussing it with her, I definitely tried my best to take her point of view into consideration. Unfortunately I just didn't understand what she meant by never getting a chance.

That's why I explained that I feel she has plenty of opportunity, but rather than helping me to understand her point of view and explaining it, she got a bit snappy and just repeated what she said in the first place.

I totally get that I probably look like all I'm concerned about is the sex. In reality I'm actually more interested in the relationship side of things. In fact for the first year neither of us were sexually active at all because we both wanted to make sure we were comparable and for the three years we've been together now everything has worked out perfectly.

Unfortunately this has been the one thing playing on my mind since I couldn't 100% understand what she meant when she explained. That was the main reason I made this post; I knew I was probably being a little paranoid, and was hoping someone else could explain the possibilities.

Although now you've explained about the whole low libido vs high libido thing, it all makes perfect sense.

Thank you for helping me understand. All I want is the best for our relationship, and now that I can see the situation clearer it's wiped away any worries. :)