in the original plan he wanted to sell the car on the east coast, driving it to his parents was only something he thought of 2 weeks ago and I do agree that it makes sense. He is with his parents right now and originally it wasn't planned for him to see them again after that trip he is doing now.

Even if he didnt leave for me he would have to figure out housing here, his visa, and most importantly health insurance. He is leaving his country for his education. He would still be 5 hours away from me. And all I wanted was to him to talk to me so we could find a compromise, I didn't feel included nor did my opinion feel appreciated. And now it just feels like he is playing with my emotions