I [21F] lost my virginity to my boyfriend [21M] tonight. Is this normal?

I had the same feeling the first time I lost my virginity. I felt dirty and my body felt weird. Just try to relax and take a hot shower. Know that your boyfriend loves you. It will soon go away. Also, communicate with your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel so he doesn't think that he did something wrong. Hope this helps

Hi everyone. Sorry about the throwaway, my friends read my regular account, and I have never posted here before because I haven't really had anything to talk about, haha.

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I thought it went alright - it didn't hurt at all even though before today two fingers inside before would hurt, and it felt good for both of us, and after he finished we cuddled and went for a second round and then after that we laughed and cracked some jokes and went to sleep... everything seemed fine!

But then after I woke up, I felt really strange. I suddenly didn't want my boyfriend to be touching me (he only had his arm around me and a leg kind of on me because we cuddled to sleep) but I felt so aware of it and I felt really really uncomfortable with it. Like his arm on me was too heavy, or his touch was not welcome like as if it was not from him, I don't know how else to explain it...

I tried to shy away subtly but of course he noticed and tried to kiss me and hold me and assure me and so forth but it all just felt so wrong so I kind of started to cry for some reason and told him I wanted to be alone, so after much reluctance he finally left. It's been like an hour now and I feel nauseous and like my head hurts but very relieved to be alone.

I don't know if it's important to mention that he didn't use a condom the first time (stupid, I know - but he didn't come inside), but had one for the second. I don't think either of us have been tested before.

He's supposed to be coming over tomorrow but I really don't feel like seeing him, I don't want my body to just spontaneously reject him again.

Can someone please tell me what's happening to me?

Thank you so much guys, I don't know who else to ask.

edit - I'm using a throwaway so it's not letting me remake my thread to add the [advice] tag to the title, am I missing a way to edit them in? Sorry moderators!

Hi everyone. Sorry about the throwaway, my friends read my regular account, and I have never posted here before because I haven't really had anything to talk about, haha.

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I thought it went alright - it didn't hurt at all even though before today two fingers inside before would hurt, and it felt good for both of us, and after he finished we cuddled and went for a second round and then after that we laughed and cracked some jokes and went to sleep... everything seemed fine!

But then after I woke up, I felt really strange. I suddenly didn't want my boyfriend to be touching me (he only had his arm around me and a leg kind of on me because we cuddled to sleep) but I felt so aware of it and I felt really really uncomfortable with it. Like his arm on me was too heavy, or his touch was not welcome like as if it was not from him, I don't know how else to explain it...

I tried to shy away subtly but of course he noticed and tried to kiss me and hold me and assure me and so forth but it all just felt so wrong so I kind of started to cry for some reason and told him I wanted to be alone, so after much reluctance he finally left. It's been like an hour now and I feel nauseous and like my head hurts but very relieved to be alone.

I don't know if it's important to mention that he didn't use a condom the first time (stupid, I know - but he didn't come inside), but had one for the second. I don't think either of us have been tested before.

He's supposed to be coming over tomorrow but I really don't feel like seeing him, I don't want my body to just spontaneously reject him again.

Can someone please tell me what's happening to me?

Thank you so much guys, I don't know who else to ask.

edit - I'm using a throwaway so it's not letting me remake my thread to add the [advice] tag to the title, am I missing a way to edit them in? Sorry moderators!

Hi everyone. Sorry about the throwaway, my friends read my regular account, and I have never posted here before because I haven't really had anything to talk about, haha.

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I thought it went alright - it didn't hurt at all even though before today two fingers inside before would hurt, and it felt good for both of us, and after he finished we cuddled and went for a second round and then after that we laughed and cracked some jokes and went to sleep... everything seemed fine!

But then after I woke up, I felt really strange. I suddenly didn't want my boyfriend to be touching me (he only had his arm around me and a leg kind of on me because we cuddled to sleep) but I felt so aware of it and I felt really really uncomfortable with it. Like his arm on me was too heavy, or his touch was not welcome like as if it was not from him, I don't know how else to explain it...

I tried to shy away subtly but of course he noticed and tried to kiss me and hold me and assure me and so forth but it all just felt so wrong so I kind of started to cry for some reason and told him I wanted to be alone, so after much reluctance he finally left. It's been like an hour now and I feel nauseous and like my head hurts but very relieved to be alone.

I don't know if it's important to mention that he didn't use a condom the first time (stupid, I know - but he didn't come inside), but had one for the second. I don't think either of us have been tested before.

He's supposed to be coming over tomorrow but I really don't feel like seeing him, I don't want my body to just spontaneously reject him again.

Can someone please tell me what's happening to me?

Thank you so much guys, I don't know who else to ask.

edit - I'm using a throwaway so it's not letting me remake my thread to add the [advice] tag to the title, am I missing a way to edit them in? Sorry moderators!

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