I (21M) Am Beyond Frustrated With Romatic Interest/ Friend (21F)

She does like you: as a friend. She definitely feels comfortable around you, that is for sure. And you can cuddle with people you have no romantic interest in. It's like sleeping with a teddy bear, it makes you comfortable. That's all. I've cuddled with girls who I had no intention of having sex with or being in a relationship with - especially friends. Maybe for you sleeping in the same bed with someone counts for something more, but that's not the case with all people. She's been completely upfront with you and honest about her feelings (or lack thereof), you just keep denying and deflecting the message written blatantly on the wall. You just need to open your eyes and realize it's never going to happen. She's not cold, the hard truth is. Swallow it man.

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