Hello Miro or should I say Dobar Den (love the Kolovrad).
Myself - married, 40s, F
Issues - Brock’s feelings, age, expensive taste
It’s hard to decipher based on what you said the truth is.
Re Brock - did she do it to be honest and inform you, did she do it to make you jealous? Does he really like her?
If he does, I’d be iffy on the close involvement on him.
Expensive taste - weddings are very dear. SO wanted ours’, personally would’ve preferred an elopement and trip overseas. My parents blessed us for this. Keep an eye on the taste, especially if you’re known to have $
Age difference- my concern is more her youth. I married late 20s. Each woman is different though, I know some that married young and they’re still married. Pregnancy and marriage though is a big change for a 21 yo woman.
Marriage is a big commitment and it’s easy to get worried. I definitely was but you just got to do it as there’s never going to be a perfect time if you wait.
Please ask yourself again why you have cold feet.