21M, why does it seem like no girls are into me?

Do you feel like you approach women often?

Whenever I get the chance to I do. For instance, if I girl I do not know comes and sits near me, I will introduce myself and try and make small talk.

If you do approach women are you flirtatious or do you stay in your comfort zone and only ever act friendly?

I am just friendly, I very rarely go out of my comfort zone, however I do give a compliment i.e " you have a nice dress style etc".

I actually do things that the average guy does not do. For instance, last year I approached a group of girls that were sitting in my dining hall at another table and introduce myself. This obviously required going out of my comfort zone, so much so that a friend of mine who has pulled literally 20+ girls on one night stands praised me for it as it is something he would not do.

What is your profile like?

It has a few pictures of myself and I linked my Instagram profile which shows me with family/friends.

Are you matching with girls but it just never leads anywhere or are you not getting any matches at all. What kind of women are you interested in?

I have got a few matches. But very few. I can go weeks without getting any at all. I have got two who I found attractive who totally flaked when I tried texting them. On the other hand, there were two girls on the heavier side who matched with me last year who may have been interested in meeting me. I did not follow up, simply because I was not attracted to them and did not wish to waste their time. I found them to be a bit on the heavier side. Not that I have anything against them as people, but bigger is just not my type. I am more into kind, leaner girls.

Also do you get interest from women who you aren't interested in? Or no interest at all?

I feel that I get interest as far as being an acquaintance is concerned. I have also had girls who I was interested in describe me as a nice person, however it just seems like none see me in a romantic/sexual way.

I'm an Indian guy and I approach mainly black and mixed race girls.

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