To start with the first question. That is mean trick question, but I know why you did it.

I don't know why we would work inside/outside a D/s relationship. That's the point of getting to know you isn't it?

What truly drew me to your post were your approaches to respect & aftercare. I like having a plaything, but I take care of my playthings. I keep my car clean, maintained, that way I can push it to its limits when I drive it. Much like I will push you to be both a better person, and a better submissive.

Respect is a huge piece. A Dom cannot take what he has not earned. A submissive is a privilege, and if she does not offer herself to a Dom, he can never own her.

I'd like to know a bit about you. You mentioned that 24/7 is a medium limit. The thing is, from what I have heard so far, you might do well in the kind I offer. It is difficult to explain, but it is an instinctual thing. We can talk about this more later, as there are some decisions that need to be made first.

I know then that you understand that for a powerful D/s relationship you need to prove that you are worth the time and effort I will be investing.

I only ever own one submissive at a time, as I prefer to give them the full brunt of my focus. As such, being my submissive is a privilege, and I am careful who I pick up, because I do not intend to let them off easy with a short sling. So I will ask a few questions.

-Ask me three questions. You are limited to three and I reserve the right to decide what constitutes a question.

-I will answer those 3 questions. To which your reply is: from what you just learned, what makes you think that we would make a good D/s couple.

• This isn't a deal breaker, but it is important: I am a very visual person. Pictures & eventual Skype would be something I would want.

For some quick personal background to give you a starting off point. I am 24years old, though have been in the scene since I was 16, and Dom from the start. I have moved around a lot in my life, but I spent my high school in the North Bay near San Francisco. I traveled a bit, but I am currently back in California, except now I live in the Silicoln Valley. I will get you a picture once I get home from this trip.