Heya, how's it going?

I'm not sure I'm exactly what you are looking for, I am not really looking for a relationship, I have just come out of a bad one and I'm burned. However, I am new to this whole scene, and although I have had interest in aspects of femdom for years, I have no real experience.

I am a lot older than you - 35, so maybe this is a deal breaker, but essentially, I'm looking to meet people who are into the same sort of thing as me to talk about it and find out more.

As for who I am - I have 2 jobs, 2 cats, I consider myself a hard worker, and probably have not got as far in life as I should have...

I am very interested in art/design, this is one of my jobs, the other is an operations job.

Outside of work I like films, music, trying to play guitar, DIY, cycling - quite a lot more.

I like the idea of teasing, denial, edging, not sure what "service" refers to, but that's why I'm here to learn!

I'm wondering if you can tell me what it is about the control that you get off on? Also what type of control?

I like the idea of being mercilessly teased but not allowed to orgasm for extended lengths of time. But I have so many ideas!

Anyway, if you'd like to chat about this stuff please do message me back. (I'm not a complete freak!)

C