I (24F) am in a long term, serious relationship but experiencing crazy attraction for someone else.

It's just human to find other people attractive. It only becomes problematic when you act on the infatuation.

Do you exercise often? Whenever I'm stressed or anxious I always go for a long run. It releases endorphins and let's me really think about what's going on in my life. This would get you out of your current environment and really let you think about things.

You have been fantasizing everyday for 3 months about "Guy". I can't tell you whether someone is "the one" for you, only you can do that. Thinking about another man everyday for three months suggests that you are already unsure about the future of your relationship, as you are fantasizing about an alternative.

Do you want a future with your current boyfriend, or would you risk it all for Guy?

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