(24M) Need some advice. Multiple years later, still hung up on the same person.

That’s really funny you say that, I was praying about this whole thing yesterday and for the first time came to the conclusion that it’s possible for the enemy to use the negative aspects of this specific circumstance to attempt to twist whatever God has planned for my vocation. I can confirm that God has told me a lot by using this whole experience and people who’ve been involved in it, but yesterday was the first time I had considered the enemy doing the inverse. I think you have a lot of great insight and the idea that both are occurring is what seems the most clear to me right now. I think the best tact right now is to remain completely open to what God is trying to say, be more cognizant of how the enemy is attempting to use it, and just wait and see how things shake out while trying to remain in as much of a state of grace as I can manage. Thank you for your comment, this gives me a lot to bring to God!

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