The same people who treat it like a crime have all their favorite scenes bookmarked or saved on their hard drive. Multi-billion dollar industry and we the only ones? Get the fuck out here.

But yeah, I am sure it is not easy. My wife doesn't know everything about me and I ensure to keep it that way, lol. Doesn't mean I love her any less... she just simply doesn't need to know everything and there are things I don't care to ask or know about her as well. We are trying to build a future, not rehash old war stories. The things we have done have made us the person we are today and all we can do is move forward from this point.

Not necessarily trying to talk you out of telling her... just that, you won't be the only person with secrets that they are afraid of telling someone. Its fine to keep somethings in the past and its up to you to determine what is right for you.