(25 f) I think my boyfriend (25 m) may be racist to white people, or has gotten sucked into the sensationalism

I never called him a racist, I just think that maybe he is due to comments he has made about white people, doesn’t mean I said that to him. I did say that he may be coming off a little sensitive in the Gambino part but I asked for him to elaborate it more and I guess he got offended by that and didn’t talk to me for the rest of the day, so really idk what he was trying to say since he himself was being dismissive with me, that’s why I came here. I asked my friends 3 of my best friends who are white, black and Hispanic (Argentinian) for their opinion and they did say the comment about the “stay in your lane” part could come off a little strong and can be rubbed off the wrong way, but overall thought that it was just the music issue based on how my boyfriend described it.

My black friend did say that he’s probably this way because he’s only surrounded by white people and the fact that he lives in Chicago where race there is a big issue, and everyone seems to be on edge there, whether you’re black white or Hispanic. Unlike here in Miami where everyone gets along no matter of culture and color for the most part. Also, she doesn’t like Gambino cus to her he sucks at rapping and was never a fan.

I mentioned that he may a sensationalist because of how he sees white people or any other culture even his own. Anyone who offends a black person and the culture he gets defensive about it but when it comes to the other race and culture, he laughs it off and continues to talk shit.

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