To get the demographics out of the way: I'm 28. I live in the East Bay.

I'm athletic and very tall, so chances are that you would be pretty vulnerable even just with me on top of you, pinning your wrists down... but I have a nice collection of cuffs, straps, bars, and rope to play with nonetheless. (Nice, smooth hemp rope: because what says "I care about you, even if I'm about to use you mercilessly" better?)

I have the sort of large, strong hands you might expect from someone my size. If it turns out that you need to be choked, just one of them can probably wrap almost all the way around your neck. If you wind up bent over something, I've found that one of them, firmly planted right between your shoulder blades, is likely to keep you right where I want you.

They can also deliver quite the stinging reminder of who's in charge, if you break the rules and need discipline as an incentive to concentrate on your training. (I'm imagining you climbing up and laying yourself over my broad lap, and looking at me nervously as you pull your little skirt up. Can't have anything protecting you from your spanking, after all. Might be a fun one to combine with some dressing up, or some roleplaying, if those things excite you.)

But if we're playing with restraints (and maybe throwing in a blindfold or a gag, just for good measure) my hands will be free to touch and tease. Taking my time and working someone up to the edge (again and again) is so much fun. I've always felt that the adage about "a poor workman blaming his tools" is really about the workman not bothering with bad tools... so I have quite the collection of toys to help me: a variety of things that buzz, vibrate, massage, or something more exotic.

Coming back to the nuts and bolts for a second: I have my own place, so I can host... and nobody will hear you yelp, moan, or beg me to finally let you come.

If you're interested, I'd love to meet: say, in public, for coffee or a drink (safety first, after all) and talk more about what turns you on and what you're looking to explore.