Mine would be a stale bedroom for sure. My wife is drop dead gorgeous, has an amazing rocking body but since we've had kids she's just very low libido (was never really high libido to begin with). I'm very high need and while I've never been physically unfaithful, it's very well known by her I love to admire women. More than a physical outlet (I can sustain it seems for quite awhile on masturbation and sex 1 or 2 times a month if I'm lucky) I miss having a sexual talk/texting/email/outlet - we used to sext a lot. She was my muse and I'd write these great erotic stories. If I write anything now and try to send them to her she'll placate me and often never read anything. We both have very high level exec jobs and she always says she's too busy, too tired, etc. We've become the cliche too-busy-for-a-romantic-relationship couple. What do I miss or desire the most? A blowjob just for my pleasure instead of just to get it wet. I miss lazy naked time. I'd love to be able to have an open-minded sexual relationship where exploring with each other is how we spend a late Saturday night after a bottle of wine and bowl. My favorite dessert? Has to be a warm, fresh chocolate chip cookie served with a big scoop of vanilla bean ice cream on top of it. Mmmmmmmm.....