YOu're gonna have to either date a creep or you're gonna have to give the guy more to go on. We live in era of Rape Watch. For a person with a penis, this shit is terrifying. You can't bang chicks that say no, even once, even if they change their mind bc they mind change it back the next day, can't fuck drunk chicks, long story short, a penis is dangerous. Any negative indication from you at all, and the mission will be aborted. No one's trying to go to jail or register as a sex offender over some pussy.

So, my advice is that you should either wait for the right one and then let him know, be VERY adamant that you WANT to be kissed, but you're just shy. You don't mind if he's aggressive. Say that four or five times to him over the course of a couple of hours and if he's not literally brain dead, he'll get the picture.

Other thing you can do is advertise for free ass on Craigslist or something. There are a ton of people in this day and age that do almost all interpersonal interactions online. Ppl in RL might be creeps (lol.) Anyway, pick ANY site you want and advertise yourself, guaranteed your mailbox will blow up and you will get to look down a long list of men, read about them, see their pictures and pic the one you like best. You can drive over there, hit it, quit it and forget it, or you can have him show up with a pizza and a 6 pack, have him hit it, quit it and get lost. If you're looking for an LTR, that's gonna be harder to wrangle and you should be pretty fucking picky when it comes to your LTR partner. Seriously, only pick an LTR partner that you are 100% in love with and that has NO negative qualities (according to you).