HE is the one who should be upset, not you!

You're moving across the country to be with this guy, but you're not even willing to meet his family? What the fuck is wrong with you? And you're on reddit stomping your feet and bitching about your hurt feelings, when your entitled little selfish ass should be happy and grateful he wants to fully make you a part of his life???

I’ve dealt with two godawful boyfriend’s moms in the past and I never want to do that again

What are you going to do, avoid his entire family for the entirety of your relationship?

Jesus fucking christ, you need to get over yourself and stop being so fucking selfish.