25f with 28m 4 weeks, moving past one night stand before exclusive?

Can it work out? Sure.

Will it? Maybe, maybe not.

To me, this is a sign that you guys might have quite different values. It's not like he just was a little hurt that you were still seeing other guys during the initial phase. To be losing sleep over it and going crazy with the questions and being so insecure is a bit much to me. Like, what you did is well within the realm of normal dating (in my experience), but it clearly was a problem for him. That means he will probably have other more conservative views about boundaries in dating that do not line up with yours. Stuff like hanging out with male friends and going to bars and things of that nature might also bring out his insecurity. If this is torturing him so much then he should just be with somebody who thinks the same way he does.

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