Holy shit. I'm not yet done reading but you, my friend, are salty as fuck. Let me finish reading your saltiness...
Okay done. That's a lot of salty hate.
Dude, there's only so much that you can do. We're not all born looking like Brad Pitt.
But I can tell you that a bangin' bod and a WINNING PERSONALITY can get you really far. In the salty mental state that you're in though, you're not gonna win any hearts. Lick your wounds, stay away from dating. When you're ready and feeling chipper again, get your ass out there and talk to women.
Lose that fucking weight!! For God's sake. I can already feel some stupid ass excuse coming out of you about how you can't lose the weight. You better not say it or I swear I will strangle you with your own loose skin. Check this guy out, he gives no fucks about your excuses and he specializes in helping obese people shed the pounds. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN5V0JO3jCMHvmMezj1ueyw
Forget online dating, btw. It's a shit show. Banging bod + winning personality = babes. That's your recipe.