I'm attracted to the D/s dynamic because my job requires me to be in control of things that are out of control. I make hundreds, if not thousands of minute decisions per day and work with people who cannot or will not follow simple directions. Now this can give me a short fuse on some days, but it also makes me really appreciate someone who wants to please me by following.

Right now I'm looking for both a friend and a play partner. Someone I can shoot the shit with about my day or my personal interests, but also play with when the mood strikes.

Communication is the most important thing here, it's important that we know when the other is and isn't available for chatting and/or play.

I would like to take some time to chat, learn more about you, and for you to learn about me. While I am interested in pushing your boundaries, I also want you to enjoy yourself and for you to feel comfortable.

The kinks I like to include in a D/s dynamic are orgasm control/denial, tasks, insertions, bathroom play (#1 only), bladder control, and a lot more. My only hard limits are blood, scat, rape play, and extreme pain.

While I'm not looking for you to be on call 24/7, some of my tasks or goals may require check in throughout the day.

If you're interested, PM me for more information or to chat about my experiences.