26 [F4R] Anywhere - I'll tell you the truth.

Someone who will tell me the honest to god truth. Fantastic.

So back in December my bi-polar girlfriend broke up with me. It mainly had to do with the fact that she wanted me not to talk about other women outside of her presence. Originally I thought it meant around her. This was specifically particular about say actresses or public figures of the female sex. This seemed reasonable to me as she was someone that was involved with me so I had no problem with this or the added restriction of no porn while dating her. Perfectly normal requests.

A while later like 5 months into the relationship. A friend of ours said something in discord about VR porn and I had the whimsical idea to banter him about the realism of how good VR porn, even though I don't own a headset or used porn since the inception of our relationship. Well she acused me of breaking our agreement and when I informed her about the context of what I thought I agreed to. She acknowledge the fact that it was not specific about talking about other women with other people outside of her presence. Then I presented examples about work where there are certain situations where groups of men(I work in IT) will sometimes rave or rally the idea of other women. It doesn't happen often but enough to where I felt the need to mention it to her. She told me that it can't happen anywhere. A 5 hour discussion insued where I declared my case about having the freedom to use whatever words outside of her domain, I felt it was part of being an indivdiual. After many of what I thought were rationally put out arguments she simply informed me that she wanted what she wanted and had no intention of addressing this particular integrial flaw. I gave in and said I would agree to it. A few days later she said she couldnt talk to me without first speaking to her therapist after 4 days of nothing. She called me up at work and said that after speaking to her mother and therapist she felt even though she loved me we were too different people.

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