I (26M) hate myself. Almost everything about me i hate. I really wish i wasent introverted.

Do you have any hobbies? Do you expose yourself to social situations (work excluded)? Unless you look like Brad Pitt in your photos, messaging won't have a high success rate. Women are not some robots that will just mate with you if you meet the checkboxes of having a job, house, and a car. Being an interesting person who doesn't seem obsessed with being noticed is much more important. The general consensus is that the more you try, the harder it gets, because people can smell your desperation. Let it be, enjoy life, and people will come. There's no magic potion. It's easier for some and harder for others. Stick to your strengths and hold your head up.
If you wanna go the length to make an effort, find a hairstyle, dress well, fix your teeth, start working out, call an acquittance, visit a tavern, talk to a stranger, start practicing a sport or join the local chess club if it's more your thing. You are focusing on women, but maybe you are generally boring in conversations because you try too hard to impress, try to socialize more in general (not just with women).

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