Lol I woke up with my jewelry and clothes on and everything.
Oh that's good.... what the fuck?
I almost can't even put into words how mad this post makes me and it's not even happening to me.
I really am sorry if that looked bad to you, but I totally just wanted to crash!
Easily could have crashed with you. In fact, I'd argue it would have been MORE easy to crash with you, right? Unless I'm missing something. It actually seems like she went through a little bit more trouble to crash with him than simply just going with you.
Not to mention she said "I'm sorry if that looked bad to you". She didn't apologize for actually doing it.
I think there's no situation I can imagine in your shoes where my girlfriend leaves a part with her ex, drunk or not. Even if you guys just went to a club or something, left totally sober - why the fuck is she leaving with her ex? That makes no sense...
I think I'm inclined to believe her based on what I know and the time we've spent together so far but, I'll be cautious. I think this may boil down to poor drunken communication
I think you're going the wrong way here. I know it's cliché for this subreddit, but you need to end this shit. You have A) an exboyfriend who clearly is going to do everything he can to get back with her B) a girlfriend who has no qualms about leaving you and going off with him C) a girl who makes no sense. I don't understand why she left with him.
Sorry dude but if I was you it would just be over. Too many factors in play here. It's a new relationship, the exboyfriend, her elaving with him... if this was like a 6+ month relationship... OK, work it out, play it by ear. But a month into the relationship? Nope.