I [26M] upset a woman [20sF] and my friends are acting like I'm in the wrong.

You just run the tab and give it to them or their friend. Often it really is just one person causing the trouble. If you catch what's happening you will print up the receipt, remove the drinks from everyone if you have to kick out the group and alert security or a manager if there isn't security. Most times groups will leave when they know they are all cut off.

There is a difference I have seen between the way guys deal with their asshole friend and girls do. Often the guys recognize that the one dude is ruining it for everyone and apologize to staff.

Girls on the other hand will go ham defending their friend that is getting thrown out - YOU CAN"T DO THAT! and a lot of that shit. These people will eventually settle down later in life and get Karen haircuts.

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