I (27F) sent a series of texts to my guy (29M) saying how much I hate him because I think he’s been sleeping with someone else. Now he’s angry.

I don’t know, I never really saw a future with him to be honest. It’s just, if you introduce the idea of being monogamous and then one person breaks that, are you not supposed to be upset about it? The whole point of monogamy is that I don’t want to sleep with other people, and I don’t want the person I’m sleeping with to do so either.

He’s not my first fwb I’ve had. He’s the longest yeah, so maybe that has something to do with it. If he would have just been honest with me and told me he was doing his own thing when I asked him, I wouldn’t have been upset. Would it have hurt? Yeah probably. But I wouldn’t have been angry at him. He just lied to my face and brought girls around when he knew I was going to be there. I just feel disrespected and I just wanted him to be honest.

Thank you for your insight though.

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