yeah i'm not denying that...if I want to hookup I have a shit ton of options BUT some of them may be awful, small, intolerable, a huge player so I'm not tryna risk getting something.....

Women stop becoming flattered by this at some point, especially the more attractive they are. It just becomes 'oh u wanna fuck me, great, how special'...men will often try their luck with multiple women at once just tryna stick their dick in something. So its hardly an esteem boost unless they are decent. Yall just think we are living the dream cos lots of average/below average men want to sleep with us....... :S

Men DO have more options when it comes to reasonable women who wanna set down aka they're attractive/educated & willing to be loyal.

This correlates with women in general outdoing men education wise...and a study that said women are avoiding marriage due to a lack of economically attractive men (as in they're LOW earners / LOW educated...they don't need to be rich). So then they're just getting stuck with these cocky men on dating apps who wanna play around

Tbh tho my brother you are not a woman, I know plenty of women who are more attractive/smarter/mature then the men they date, but the guy is stillllllll fidgety and going OTT tryna see how much better he can get. Yes some rare men do wise up, eventually, and are happy with their choice, but way too many men ain't like that. Unless u are a woman u wouldn't get it