I [28M] want to know what could be the "things that happened" that [21F] is talking about

I am not seeking any sort of entitlement, but I think in modern times, I believe in social etiquette not to keep people hanging or stringing people along which is what I had felt. We are all human creatures and have emotions and when something we feel is not right, there is no harm to ask about it. Of course i care and like her enough to want to continue "seeing her" and she had given me hints that she had too, but then there was a repeated behaviour that I was noticing and she told me she is the type of person that does not lead someone on, so I was a bit confused. I never thought of her as mine and I am not saying I want a relationship just yet. I simply thought, given that I have been a respectful man to her thus far and we met up and I took her out to a nice place, decency would be to tell or explain how you feel about something if you no longer wish to meet up with that person. I understand most people do not have the courage or ability to be that way, but maybe I was brought up in a different way where its good to be direct with someone and not give them an impression like "i am into you but I also dont want you to think I am so I will keep it like that". I had that vibe and I just didnt want to feel like I was being taken for granted. Hence, I asked her that point blank. The rest is history.

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