How do I come across as a pompous twat? What has given you that impression? Fat people can't keep up with my interests.
Why do you want to talk to someone?
I like meeting new people.
Why the US?
I'm travelling across the western side of the us next year, six month trip. I like the scenery, accents, culture, american media, basically everything to do with america.
What is interesting about you?
It entirely depends on what someone is interested in. If you're interested in swimming, then being able to swim together might be of interest. If you like photography, travelling together might be. If you're a fatty that stays at home and your idea of fun is to do drugs, then no, not much is interesting about me. There's not much I can say about what is interesting without either self deprecating or coming across as a pompous twat as you put it.
insecurities and shallowness in your personality
I was just being realistic. I've an I.Q of 140+, I'm average looking, and I'm about 10% body fat. I prefer to talk to really attractive people, not just because I'm shallow, but because I know they have other people to chat to. I don't want to be the only person someone has in their life.
If you type "really fat woman" into google, and look at the first result, would you accept the majority of people don't find her attractive?
If you type, "slim toned woman" in google and look at the first result. You could say a lot of people would find her attractive. I know people that are more attractive, but for the sake of discussion, can we accept this is a stereotypical attractive person?
The latter person probably works out, is healthy, watches what she eats more than the former, she probably has better energy levels and can likely hike with me for 2000+ miles and complain less than the former person.
If you were seeking a person to chat to, would you aim your post towards the former or the latter? If you ONLY value the looks of the latter, sure that's pure shallowness, but I don't. There's more to being obese than just being ugly as far as I am concerned. My apologies if I am not pro actively seeking fat, ugly people who would die of a heart attack if they spent a day with me