I appreciate people giving me advice and their opinions, I just hate being called insecure or crazy because I have reason to think that perhaps I’m just a passing time candidate. I understand mentioning exes as I have done the same. It’s just that based on the duration, intensity and relationship, and the woman herself being a dream girl, AND what I know about how he is a very committed and feelings based person who was clearly hurt- I came here looking for a second opinion. And there’s the fact that he’s been slow with me which makes me feel like a second option. But all of that aside, yeah I suppose it makes sense. Just don’t appreciate people being so rude for no reason.