Cool that you play guitar and piano, me too :) Do you mention that on your profile? And have you got decent pictures on there? Sorry to hear you're having a dry spell on the apps.
I understand the criticism for mentioning how many matches I got. Perhaps I shouldn't have done that, but I wanted to show that I don't just swipe on tall, white guys – or Superlike everyone I see.
I can also assure you I didn't swipe right on everyone. I was on Tinder for a good while, pretty active on it, and I travel around a lot. I think this figure is kinda normal for most OK-looking (or better – I personally class myself as fairly average) women in these circumstances. I know guys get a rough ride on the apps, I'm not denying that.
I also understand that I'm an anomaly on this sub, but surely that only makes my advice more useful? Correct me if I'm wrong.
And yeah, if I'm being honest, I do spend a lot of time debating stuff with my boyfriend. We're both pretty opinionated people! But it's usually nothing that can't be settled with a bit of discussion (or, if all else fails, a game of PUBG, haha).