[29M] I went to therapy first time today, and my therapist said to give relationship another shot with highly toxic ex

My ex girlfriend was so toxic: - she manipulated me by her crying - she didn’t work and she laughed of me cause I didn’t give a little higher tip for a waiter (materialistic) - I had emotional rollercoaster, some days good and some bad for no reason - I’ve seen her smile in first months but after 6-12 months she became a toxic - I didn’t see her smile at the beginning of our dates, I thought it was right (sometimes people have bad day and mood) but it wasn’t. - she talked with me with her high tone voice - she argued with me about candies from a jar I bought for her, I chose the red color of candy and she was nervous cause she wanted it - she broke up with me via message - “we have other plans, I don’t feel anything to you, you are a good man.. blah blah blah - it hurts

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