Hi Sir,

I saw your post on BDSMpersonals and wanted to reply. I'm a 25 year old female who enjoys pleasing her partner above all else. I'm pretty inexperienced with submission, but it's something I've been fantasizing about for a very long time. I have a pretty good sex life with my current FWB, but he is not as dominant as I would like. I'll ask him to do something dominant, like hold me down or restrain me, but he is hesitant. I definitely feel like there is something missing because I'm not able to have the intimacy of a D/s relationship with him.

About my appearance: I'm 5'6", a healthy weight (145 lbs), with blonde hair and blue eyes. My breasts are 34DD. I'm frequently told that I'm beautiful, but who knows what floats your boat.

About my preferences: I like confident, dominant men (and women) who are in charge in the bedroom. I'm independently successful, so I require respect for my intelligence and career outside the bedroom. But during sex I like being told what to do...or, even better, put in the right position. Manhandling turns me on, as does dirty talk. I like hearing how much I'm pleasing my partner, and since I'm a naturally submissive person, I like the praise I get for doing a good job sexually. I also have a preference for big cocks..I love having a hung guy going balls deep inside me...it hurts in such a good way (I'm not a masochist...this is the only pain I enjoy). I also love giving oral to big guys and feeling them down my throat...I also enjoy having my partners tell me that I've given them the best blowjob of their life...nothing makes me happier or wetter than pleasing my partner.

About my kinks: I'm traditionally submissive, I guess. I like being held down or restrained. It turns me on to have my partner hold me down while he enjoys himself. I like the idea of being shared with other men...whether it be a threesome or just having to show off naked in front of my partner's friends. I find choking very intimate, but I was choked in an assault, so I have trouble doing it straight off the bat. I like the daddy dom dynamic to a certain extent: I like the idea of having a caring dom who will fuck me because he thinks it's good for me. I also like some slave aspects: being told to strip and being inspected...being available for sexual use whenever my partner desires.

That's all I can think of right now! If you think we might be a good match, let me know.