I (30F) left my boyfriend (32M) after a 5 year relationship living with him abroad.....

I'm kind of in a tough situation. His family is like family to me. Not only that, but my residency is depended on him up here where I live. I think I'd have to leave this country and go back to the states with no where to go, no family to go to. My life is here now, and I feel obligated to stay with him because of my immigration.

It's been hard today, he has been grumpy all day, just like every day. Mad about employees at Best Buy for not having a hard drive in stock. We asked if they had three different ones in stock because he decided he wanted one today and he got pissy each time they said they were out of stock. I tried to reason with him and let him know it's probably because of both Boxing Day and COVID.

I didn't even want the hard drive but he wanted it, so I ended up paying it for him because he insisted I paid for it.

Now he is pissed off because about something with his school, starts breaking stuff, and I'd try to ask him what's going on but he stonewalls me and doesn't want to talk to me about it.

I wish I had a place to go when it gets like this. I just want to get away but I have no where to go.

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