I [30M] have become addicted to sharing pictures online whilst my wife [27F] is away.

  1. Used to be quite high. She thinks it's a natural low, and has gone for blood tests. Honestly though, it could be either, and the second option is what I fear.
  2. Six years. We moved in together, but I can't place a key event 3 years ago, as we've lived together for longer than that. It was more of a dwindle than a sudden drop.
  3. She has a lot of divorce and separation in her family. She has some darker elements in her past, and was taken advantages of when she was sixteen by an older man.
  4. I'm not quite sure what this means? We never discussed this in our therapy sessions.
  5. I suppose it might be, having a quick look into it. That and physical touch. My wife's would probably be quality time. That makes a lot of sense because that is something I'm bad at. I'll look into this, thank you.
  6. Honestly, I'm kind of OK with the sex staying at it is. Once every three months isn't so bad, and when we do have it it's good. It's just sometimes I fear that she'll leave in five or ten years and I'll have wasted my youth and not be able to find anyone. I go through different phases of how I feel about it. We're friends, but sometimes it feels like we're just friends, if that makes sense. I'd want to keep working on it, I think is what I'm saying.
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