I (31m) can't stop thinking about my ex (23f) of 2,5 years even after almost 3 years and almost 1,5 years into a new relationship

I am sorry that not everyone is that super popular teenager who gets to experience all ranges of relationships before he turns 18.
As i said, this was my first relationship back then, i wish she was older, but the girl i met and that fell in love with me as i did with her just happened to be younger than me. I didn't lurk around a school preying upon kids, i met her at work.
I know i am not perfect, but i find it infuriating that no one can imagine a guy not having experienced a relationship or similar in his mid 20s. Everyone here is just pointing fingers because i fell in love. Thanks, should i now go kill myself or what? What do you want if you are not helping? i thought the whole point of this sub was helping people who ask for help.

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